What's the PERFECT image of a human being?

I had something interesting happen. I was told by a guy how if I wanted to get a boyfriend/husband I need to grow my hair out. But I hate having long hair. I always loved having short hair, probably due to my cutting my hair when I was very little. But it just hurt so much to have a guy tell me that.
So of course for a long time I kept my hair and didn't cut it but I didn't love it either I really wanted to cut my hair and so I did.
Have you ever felt looked down on? I'm gonna explain how society now a days views men and women. What you are told you have to be in order to be beautiful. For the two you have to have a flat stomach with high sex appeal.

• Now for the list of men:
• You can not have medium length hair you HAVE to have long or short. If your hair is curly get it fixed, and if your hair is long and curly straighten it or make it into waves.
• You can have hair on your chest, forearms, legs, and half way down your neck.
• You MUST have abs, and sharp chin and jaw.
• Your eyes need to be soul full with thick well defined eyebrows.
• Your hands need to be rough and large.
• Now for the list of women:
• You HAVE to have long hair that is at least to your mid back. It has to be perfect, curled, wavy, or straight. No frizz, flyaways, or leaving your hair natural.
• You need to have no hair anywhere but on your thin well defined eyebrows, long full eyelashes, and your head. Anywhere else and you are disgusting.
• You have to have perfectly shaped legs and arms, with small feet and hands that all are soft and smooth.
• You have to have a small nose, full lips, and doe like eyes.
• Your body needs to be an hourglass shape with a perfect shape.

Sounds depressing right? You're basically being told this by magazines, TV, movies, and music. You're not beautiful or worthwhile if you're not that. Let me share an interesting fact for you. THIS IS ONLY A PHASE!!!
Many of you know about Leonardo Da Vinci's Mona Lisa correct? This painting many may not notice but she has no eyebrows. Don't believe me take a look.
There has been the style of overalls, bangs going straight up, belly shirts, on and on. So have I made my point? What you should only look for in another is health and kindness, what you get physically should never matter.
Be a voice and state this, "No matter what anyone says to me I am unique and beautiful. A person who someone finds truly stunning."
KEEP BELIEVING YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!